Monday, October 20, 2008

The Story of a Little Boy


I am aware that it has been quiet a while since I last posted an article here. It was partly due to the unexpected surge of workload at my Firm and also because I wanted to pay a little more attention to other aspects of my life beside politics. I took my children and nephews for a long overdue camping trip. There were a few books that I was reading and wanted to complete...

The other day I came across a very interesting story. It was a story of a little boy. A true story. This little boy picked up an interest in music. For several years, he had been learning to play the cornet. He persisted, putting in hours of practice at home each day, and there came a time, after many painful hours of practice peppered with criticism from his mother, that he was rewarded by being chosen to participate in his school's Armistice Day Ceremony.

Each year on November 11, the entire school went down to the gym for a ceremony honouring the nation's fallen soldiers. In what had become a school tradition, trumpet players stationed at doors on either side of the gym would alternate playing "Taps," one blowing the first
dum da dum notes, and the other echoing dum da DUM, and so on.

That year, this boy's cornet skills had advanced enough for him to be given the part of the echo. He woke up the morning of the event, exhilarated at the prospect of performing in front of the entire school. When the big moment came, he was ready.

As the little boy stood in the doorway with his cornet, the first trumpet player sounded,
Dum da DUM.

But on the second
dum, he hit a wrong note.

"My whole life flashed before my eyes, because I didn't know what to do with the echo. They hadn't prepared me for this. Paralyzed - my big moment" recounted the little boy years later.

Should he copy the other trumpet player's mistake or embarrass him by contradicting what he's played? The little boy was undone. The scene scalded itself permanently into his memory. What he did next he can't remember - had become a blank.

But that little boy learned a valuable lesson that day:

It might seem easier to go through life as the echo - but only until the other guy plays a wrong note.

It is a lesson that will serve all of us well. Often, either by choice, circumstances or sheer force of habit, we end up playing the 'echo'.

That little boy grew up to be the most successful investor of all time and the richest man in the world a few years running. That little boy's name is Warren Buffet.

Deepavali is just a few days away. Lets put away our differences, even if temporarily, during this Festival of Lights, and allow time for healing.

For all readers and commentators, many thanks for your time, concern, criticism and input. For those that I have offended, I offer my unreserved apologies.

Our heartfelt prayers for those that are separated from their loved ones (and their families) during this Festival of Lights.

I would like to conclude with this Shanti Mantra,

Astoma sadgamaya
Tamasoma jyotirgamaya

Mrutyorma amrutamgamaya

Om shantih, shantih, shantihi


Lead me from the unreal to the real
From darkness to light
From mortality to immortality
Om Peace, Peace, Peace

HAVE A RADIANT DEEPAVALI. GOD BLESS.

Murugesan Sinnandavar






6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Muru,

Happy deepavali to you and to all readers.

keep writing,a lot of us are watching and waiting.
rgds
jei

Anonymous said...

Dear Muru,
Firstly, a very poignant story. I hope we all take time over the Deepavali holidays to reflect and find wisdom from it.

Secondly, I take this opportunity to wish you and your family a very HAPPY DEEPAVALI. “May the Divine Light of Deepavali Spread into your Life, Peace, Prosperity , Happiness and Good Health!”

Also, thank you for all your dedication and support for our community.

God bless you.Happy Deepavali!

Regards,
Krishnan

Anonymous said...

Dear Muru,

Hope this story serves as a lesson for all in our political scene. Some of us may want to follow the tune of PKR and Hindraf but at what cost?

We may all end up like Wathyamoorthy’ daughter; Vwaishhnavi. A helpless victim of circumstances to be used by he very guardians for their own benefit.

Anyway, wishing you a Happy Deepavali filled with enlightenment, wisdom, prosperity and joy.

Regards

Jothydass

Anonymous said...

Dear Sir

Your excerpt from Brihadaranyaka Upanishad is all very well. However, the mass of the Indians are still tired, sore and angry at MIC....for allowing the corrupted but still deviant Samy Vellu as President. The man is a joke...his family is a dysfunctional joke mired in scandals. He has to go...and what baffles me is the deafening silence from you and the other MIC leaders.
If the Indian mass had their way, they would burn him and his son at the stake.
His son is a high school drop out who doesnt have any tertiary qualification
and yet he is the chairman of MAIKA Holdings.

Doesnt MIC believes in recruiting capable educated people? Of course there were the famous gangsters who led some of the MIC divisions...who are in the police wanted list...one was actually arrested under the emergency ordinance...ex-MIC youth chief Vickneswaran's younger brother!!!!

MIC need to reform....badly. You can start by removing the &*%$#@*&@!#$ Samy Vellu first.

Thanks for your time and space here.

Regards

Asha Iyengar

Murugesan Sinnandavar said...

Dear Asha,

Thank you for your views and comments.

Yes, I agree with you that MIC leaders must be in touch with the feelings and sentiments of the Indian Community. The more we are 'disconnected' from the community;less relevant we will become.

However, I would like to lay out a few facts here:
1. It is easy to accuse a person of being corrupt without anything to substantiate it. DSSV have been accused of corruption but the ACA had investigated him many times over on each of those allegations and had cleared him each time.
2. In this current political scenario, people are just looking at his 'fault' without taking into account the 'good' that he has done.
3. The President of the Party is elected by the Branch Chairmen. DSSV is still the elected President of the Party.
4. S.Vellpaari was elected into that position by the majority of Maika Shareholders. (I know you would question me on how it was done, etc - but that is another issue. No, he is not a high school drop-out, he has a Diploma in Architecture.
5. Vigneswaran's brother never led a division. He is a branch chairman in Klang and was once a division officer bearer. Without going into the merit of the detention, it is suffice to say that detention under emergency ordinance, like that under ISA, is done without trial; thus there is no conviction to disqualify a person from holding a party post.

Yes MIC needs reform to be reconnected with the Indian Community and we taking steps in that direction. There is more openness within the party and young leaders are beginning to speak out. I am confident that this will gain momentum.

Take care and have a good day.

Murugesan Sinnandavar

Anonymous said...

Good Day Sir

Thank you for taking time in replying on my comments.

I still believe that a change of guard is necessary in rejuvenating MIC. We need new leaders with new ideas. New blood untainted.

I will forgo on further commenting on how Samy Vellu is chosed/voted, as the politics of fear is evidently clear, sincxe he is still there.

On Vel Paari being a high school drop out...(its true) thats why he end up having a diploma instead of a degree. Probably a form 5 flunk out?

The very fact our police did arrest Vickneswaran's brother under emergency ordinance is something MIC should take into factor when promoting/choosing/maintaining a member or head.
Sir, for heaven's sake he was arrested because of his shady links not because he was protesting for positive social changes for the Indians!!!

Honestly, I would prefer to see more "young" and proffesional grassroot leaders like yourself at the helm of MIC.
So please do not be a mere yes men...be that change for our community.

Thanking you.

Asha Iyengar