Traffic Does Not Care

Extracted from "The World Is My Classroom, The Universe Is My Teacher"

“‘Traffic jam’, as far as excuses go, is not credible but believable”

Traffic Does Not Care

I was nervously looking at ‘Waze’ on my phone. It showed a delay of twenty three minutes due to traffic jam. I was going to be late, by a good five minutes.  Add another five to find parking and scramble up to the office. Ten minutes. Can’t explain away ten minutes by differences in watches. I am screwed. 

I was cursing the traffic. It is so unpredictable, even with Waze. When I started, it showed I will be there with 15 minutes to spare. Now with just two kilometres away, with a minor accident up in front, it is showing this.

’10 am’ appointments can be deceiving. It allows you to think that your appointment is after the rush hour traffic. It is, but the traffic does not drop at 9am sharp. It always lingers up to 9.30am and even then does not really subside. All the smarty pants whom wanted to avoid the jam will be jamming the road by this time.

I hate traffic jams. Everyone does. We dread it, swear at it and avoid it more than the Corona Virus. 

Sometimes, traffic jam has its uses as well. It is the ‘WD40’ of excuses for being late. Comes in handy for all occasions. ’Caught in traffic’ can be used at any time except 3am; and under any circumstances except Kuala Lumpur during Chinese New Year. 

‘Traffic jam’, as far as excuses go, is not credible but believable.

Curse it or use it as an excuse, Traffic does not care. Either way. 

Why fret then? Why send our blood pressure high and let the moron in us run loose? All those knitted eyebrows, clenched fists and pursed lips. It serves no purpose, except to harm ourselves and those around us.

You can be angry at traffic. It does not care. You can be happy. It does not care. You can be indifferent. It JUST does not care. 

Traffic does nothing to accommodate our individual moods. Changes it not one single bit.  Why then do we choose anger? Or any of the other negative reactions like frustration, tension or stress? Our reaction is our choice. Think about it. We can choose better. Each time.

My son, who is in many ways is wiser than I, always plays ‘It’s a Wonderful World’ whenever he is caught in a jam. Works for him.

Traffic, it ebbs and flows with time. It doesn’t punish nor reward. And it definitely doesn’t  pander to our individual moods. We are in it and journey through it. It is the collective us. 

It is, the way it is. It is, what it is. What we make of it, is our choice. 

Just like the Universe.

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MURU

It Is in the Question

Extracted from "The World Is My Classroom, The Universe Is My Teacher"

It Is in the Question

We celebrated a friend’s birthday the other day. 

After the cake cutting and the dinner that followed some of us settled around the table for a chat.

The topics jumped from one to another and we finally landed on religion.

Steve, “You guys talk so much about religion. There are so many paths. Each with its own version of truth. Which path to follow? If I want to be better person, what am I do? What to follow?”

“Follow your conscience” answered Sam.

“Yes, that’s it. Just follow your conscience. It will eventually lead you to the truth” joined in John.

Pause. 

Steve  thinks deeply and shoots back, “But that can’t be true for a psychopath. Following his conscience will cause more harm.”

Awkward silence. Hmmm.

And then this answer just came out of John. 

“Well, YOU are asking this question. A psychopath will not ask that question. He will probably will be asking something like “The world is screwed up. Everyone is screwed up. How can I now get rid of some of those screwed up people?””

Ahhh…

That’s it, isn’t it. Different people ask different questions. 

We ask different questions during different phases of our lives. 

“Will dad be angry with my results?”, “Does she like me?”, “What course to take?”, “What to wear?”,  “Why am here?”,  “Do I look fat?”, “Why is my life like this?”, “What’s for dinner?”, “How to make more money?”, “Who am I?”. You get the idea.

We ask questions in search of answers. 

What we don’t realise is that our questions say more about ourselves than the answers. 

Perhaps “ask and it shall be given” has more layers than one would imagine. The very act of ‘asking’ forces one to face up to what exactly one wants.

William Shakespeare must have been on to something when he wrote “To be or not to be, that is the question….”. Hamlet’s questions reveal so much about him and what lies within that the answers to those questions become almost irrelevant. The question reveals the person.

Our mind is always crowded with questions. We are busy seeking answers and think that the solution lies in getting the ‘correct’ answer. We assume that the answer is out there and once it is given to us or obtained, everything will be fine. But that seldom is the case. Each answer given leads to many other questions.

We stand on certain believe system, certain things about ourselves and the surrounding circumstances that we have come to  accept as ‘facts’. And from there, from where we stand, we ask questions, looking for answers.

But the answer is right there staring back at us; in the question.

Our questions reveal who we are, where we are at and what we feel is lacking. And if we look within, in those questions, lie the answers. Our questions hold the answers to our turmoil, our inner conflicts and our aspirations. And once we come to see from whence the question is asked, the questions itself dissolves, revealing the answer.

The next time you have questions running in your mind, observe those questions, look within. You might be surprised at what it reveals about yourself. 

Pay attention to your questions my friend. The answer, IS in the question.

Muru

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My Speech at 'Save Malaysia' Rally 2016

27th March, 2016
Shah Alam Convention Centre

Good afternoon.

I come here today not as the former Secretary General of MIC nor as a member of MIC.

I come here as a concerned citizen of Malaysia to say what is on my mind. Nothing more, nothing less.

Martin Luther King once said, “ultimately along the way of life, an individual must stand up and be counted and be willing to face the consequences whatever they are.”

I think the time has come for ME to stand up and be counted. And here I am.

I think the time for all Malaysians to stand up and be counted has come too.

Corruption in this country has reached the highest level and to such dizzying heights where we now look at the embezzlement of 100 million as a small amount. (I think all of you know it is small compared to what).

Yes we usually make some noise about it. Write some comments on FB or tweeter and after some time move on to other things to complain about.

We seldom do anything about it.

We always assume that somebody else will do something about it.

(Well guess what? There is nobody else but us citizens of this country. If we don’t do something about it, nobody else will.)

For the longest time Malaysians have been craving for change. But believe me, that change will not come until and unless we as citizens of this country stand up, speak up and bring about THAT change.

My fellow Malaysians, please ask yourself these questions:

Will you be living behind a better Malaysia for your children then the one that you inherited from your parents?

Is this the sort of Malaysia that you want your children and their children’s children to grow up in?

If the answer is no, then we must do something. Its our responsibility to leave behind a better Nation for our children.

Therefore, my dear fellow citizens,
If it is not us, then who?
If it is not  now, then when?

And to my friends in BN - For how long will you remain silent?

For how long are you going to defend the indefensible?

Enough is enough.

Wahai rakan-rakan sekalian, untuk berapa lamakah anda ingin menegakkan benang yang basah?

Tolonglah ingat prinsip rukun negara:

“Kesetiaan Kepada Raja dan Negara”

Ya, kesetiaan kepada Raja dan Negara, bukannya kesetiaan kepada pemimpin.

Dan pastinya bukan kesetiaan kepada pemimpin tertentu.

Kesetiaan kita kepada pemimpin adalah terhad, iaitu kita harus setia kepada pemimpin setakat mana beliau sendiri setia kepada Negara dan bertindak demi kepentingan negara.

Apabila seseorang pemimpin tidak lagi setia kepada Negara, maka kita juga tidak perlu setia kepada pemimpin tersebut.
Malah, jikalau  kita masih mendokong pemimpin tersebut tanpa menghiraukan kesannya kepada negara kerana kongkongan parti politik atau kepentingan peribadi, maka kita sendiri telah menderhaka terhadap kepada Negara kita.

My fellow Malaysians,

Malaysia was at one time poised to be one of the young tigers of Asia. Right now we are struggling not to be at the bottom of the pit.

Speakers before me have spoken extensively about the current situation in our country and I do not wish to repeat the same thing here.

I invite my fellow citizens to look at the long term reform needed to strengthen democracy and accountability in Malaysia.

In a democracy, leaders come and go. Sometimes the going part is a little more harder.

But the mechanism that ensures that leaders that come, adhere to democratic principles are its legal institutions.

These legal institutions are the pillars that uphold our democracy.

These institutions are the ones that stand between tyranny cloaked in democracy and the liberty of its people.

Over the years we have seen the all powerful executive branch of our government usurp and undermine these pillars of democracy.

What are some of these institutions that have come under threat and what is that we need?



We need a free and independent judiciary,
a press that dares to write the truth without fear of punitive action,
an Attorney General Chambers that is free to prosecute wrongdoers without fear or favour,
an Anti Corruption Agency that is allowed to do its job without external interference and
a Registrar of Societies that is truly unbiased,  just to name a few.

The AG Chambers which is invested with powers to prosecute wrongdoers is the latest to be undermined in our country. All of you know what happened. What is the big hurry in replacing an Attorney General with only 69 days remaining for him in office? His abrupt removal under the prevailing circumstances can only imply a more sinister plot underneath.

MACC, the body entrusted to weed out corruption has been so undermined that whenever it charges someone, it is either a small fry, an opposition leader or own party leaders that the powers that be want to get rid off. And whenever this body is seen actually doing its job, you see high ranking officers being transferred with immediate effect.
How can a supposedly independent body function under such circumstances?

We have also seen in recent times that the Registrar of Societies lording over societies and political parties. The Societies Act that was enacted to ensure more self-governance of societies and political parties has been so twisted in its interpretation that the Registrar of Societies can effectively strip the powers of an elected president and ultimately hold the power of life and death over any organization. I think most political parties had such an encounter with the ROS.

My fellow citizens, the movement that has been started now is unprecedented in our nation’s history.

Leaders and representatives of different and even opposing political parties are here, NGOs, members of civil society and people of all ages, of all walks of life, of different ethnicity and religion are here.

We are so diverse and yet are all united by a common cause – Towards a better Malaysia. And I am proud to be part of this movement.

Together I truly believe we can build a better Malaysia.

That is why I feel that this movement isn’t just about one man.

This movement is about the aspiration of every single Malaysian for a better Malaysia, free from corruption and abuse of power.

I would like to recite a phrase from Thirukural, the Tamil treasure trove of wisdom for all ages and all aspects of life as a reminder for all Malaysians.


Idipparai Illathe Yemaraa Manan

Kedupar Illa-nung Kedum

It means - A leader without men to rebuke him will perish even without enemies to destroy him.

I always believe that the role of citizens in a healthy democracy is not merely to vote once every five years but also to ensure that those elected into power are not corrupt and abide by the underlining principles of democracy throughout.

And that is why robust and independent legal institutions  are a must in a true democracy. These are the institutions that provide the check and balance in a democracy.

We should not allow any politician or political party to undermine these institutions, whoever they are.


Any other interpretation of democracy nullifies  the notion of

“Government of the people, by the people and for the people”.

Yes, please remember that - for the people - the government of the day must be for the people, not to perpetuate its own survival.




God bless Malaysia. Lets save Malaysia.

Thank you.

Waste Not

Had a very interesting conversation with a "solid waste" (meaning our everyday garbage) expert.

Did you know that:

- gasses emitted from landfills is the biggest contributor to greenhouse gasses in Malaysia?
(smoke from power stations comes next and vehicle exhaust fumes only comes in third);

- there is no such thing as 100% 'safe' incinerator in the world. Accidents and explosions occur even at sites managed by the most advanced countries such Japan, Germany and Holland. Even with the 'cleanest' incinerators, 5% of the remnant  ash is toxic and these are even harder to dispose then the actual waste.

- organic waste is more of a health hazard then non-organic waste as they emit methane gases, foul odour and poison our underground water system.

Lesson from it all?

I guess we have recycle more and waste less.

Lets do our part to help earth heal itself.

Deplorable Conditions of Low Cost Flats

Lifts that don't work, lights that don't work, railings that are stolen. These are some of the problems faced by the residents of a PPR flat in Kota Damansara.

SUBANG: A pregnant woman could not be rushed to the hospital and ended up giving birth in front of the lift door when the lifts in a low-cost flat here failed to function.

The residents of the PPR flat in Section 8, Kota Damansara, are living in extreme conditions, and this prompted a MIC leader to call on Barisan Nasional and Pakatan Rakyat to set aside political differences.

MIC secretary-general S Murugesan said both the Federal Territory and Urban Well being Ministry and the Selangor state government must work together to resolve the residents’ woes.

“It is not about politics but a humanitarian issue. The welfare of the people is of importance and political differences should be set aside,” he told reporters after visiting the PPR flat yesterday.

Murugesan said he met with the maintenance company Nilsham Resources last week and was informed that the maintenance service was stopped after the residents did not pay rental.

However, the residents claimed that they had refused to pay rental after the maintenance overlooked their basic needs.

Speaking to FMT, B Paneer Selvam, who has been staying there for the past five years, said that the problems started after Pakatan took over Selangor.

The state government increased the rental from RM124 to RM250 in July, 2008.

“We were against the rental increase because we could not afford it,” he said, adding that a year later, the state government agreed to the old rate after a series of meetings.

“However, the new maintenance company appointed by Pakatan forced us to pay the one year arrears which is more than RM3,000. We are poor people who cannot fork out such a big sum and this led to the maintenance company withdrawing its services,” he said.

Faulty lifts are the main problem

Asked about the condition of the flats, Paneer said that faulty lifts were the main problem.

“There are three lifts for each block but only one functions. Furthermore, the lift stops automatically on each of the 18 floors, and it takes about 30 minutes to go up and down,” he added.

The flats was also littered with rubbish, and Paneer explained that it was because it took the residents a long time to take their rubbish to the ground floor.

He also said that drug addicts also frequented the flats, and there have been numerous robbery cases because the lights along the walkways were not working.

Relating another incident, Paneer said a child fell down the staircase because the railings had been stolen.

Murugesan said most PPR flats were in a similar condition and stressed on the need for action to be taken.

“I am here not as a politician but like I said, this is more of a humanitarian issue,” he added.

“We want a long-term solution to this PPR flats problem,” he said, adding that the state government could follow the Kuala Lumpur City Hall (DBKL) where the latter oversees all the low-cost flats in the Federal Territory.

He added that the state government should form a special department to cater for all the PPR flats in Selangor.

This story makes me...

Think (1) Happy (3) Angry (7) Sad (4) Want to Vote (1) Stand Up for My Rights (0)

http://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/category/nation/2012/03/24/home-sour-home/

Press Statement - Appointment of Datuk Ranjit Singh as Chairman of SC

Press Statement - Appointment of Datuk Ranjit Singh as Chairman of SC

MIC welcomes the appointment of Datuk Ranjit Ajit Singh as Chairman of the SC and Dato Dr Nik Ramlah Mahmood as Deputy Chief Executive. Both are individuals of high calibre and integrity. Although both the appointments were based purely on merit, the appointment of Datuk Ranjit Ajit Singh as Chairman of the SC has a special significance for the Malaysian Indian Community. It recognises their contribution towards nation building and ability to lead important institutions in our country.

The appointment also signals to the Malaysian Indian youths that under the leadership of our Prime Minister YAB Dato' Sri Najib Tun Abdul Razak, they can aspire for high office provided that they are willing to work hard.

MIC also wishes to thank the outgoing Chairman, Tan Sri Zarinah Anwar who has done an excellent job in strengthening and developing the Malaysian capital market and maintaining the high integrity of our Securities Commission.

MIC calls upon the government to appoint more qualified Malaysian Indians as board members and chairmen of GLCs; as currently the community is not proportionately represented in these bodies.

S.Murugessan

Secretary General

MIC